Happy bunco night

My Mistress Wife plays a dice game once a month with a group of twelve women. Before She left me yesterday evening She assigned me a set of tasks to perform and prepare for Her return.

Here's the quick notes I took to help me remember:

• sheets in dryer, settting 80
• white load washer cotton/hot soap bleach
• make bed
• wait for key location/text
• thigh-high heels 4-cuffs collar suspend over beam
• 4-ties on corners of bed
• harness/cock
• wine
• candles
• music
• viagra

She returned after 3-4 hours just as I finished my preparation. As requested, I was standing naked with hands suspended from ceiling beam while wearing a dog collar, thigh-high stockings and a pair of 4 inch high heels. I pretty sure She liked what She saw, it was Her choice.

Next month, Bunco is hosted at our house and I wonder what Her plans will be. I'd love to know that there are other FemDoms in the group. It sure would be fun to serve.

Happy and owned

I am really enjoying our D/s lifestyle now. My Mistress Wife has willingly taken control of me and enjoys the power She wields. Now that She owns me emotionally, I am starting to consider a physical 'branding' with a tattoo, piercing or both.

I am an empty canvas... Any ideas?

Happy and pink

My Mistress has decided to step it up a notch. As you can see She has determined that my backside was in need of a beating. Other than wanting to be dominated and humiliated by Her, I don't think I did anything to promote or deserve this attention. However, I am absolutely sure that She enjoyed doing this almost as much as I enjoyed Her attention. 

Happy to be woke up

My Mistress Wife likes to play in the middle of the night. Last night was a perfect example of this when She woke me around three o'clock. She immediately ordered me to retrieve our snake bite suction cups. I fulfilled Her request and returned to Her side knowing that She would apply them to my nipples.

For those of you unfamiliar with how these suction cups work I will try to explain them. They are rubber, shaped like a small cup with about a 3/4 inch opening and about an inch deep. To install them you simply squeeze to collapse, place the opening on the spot to be sucked and release. Her favorite spot to attach these suckers is on each of my nipples. Within seconds after they are attached to my chest, my cock will respond into a full fledged hard-on.

If you have been following my blog you may know that I am a 24/7 chastity device wearer. I wear a popular CB-6000 that, like many devices, installs over the penis and held in place with a ring around the balls. From my research, it is my understanding that it is one of the more comfortable devices to wear. This may be true but when you get a hard-on while wearing one of these it becomes a sadistic torturous cage. The base of your cock expands and the entire cage including your balls is pushed from your pelvis as far as your anatomy will allow. You will find out real quickly that you will want to be shaved and lubricated when this occurs.

So there I was, wiggling around on the bed, dressed in a soft nightgown, nipples sucked and cock tortured contained in the CB. My Mistress had me exactly where She likes me. I admit, I like it too. She laid on Her chest while I massaged Her back, butt, legs and feet. Then She rolled onto Her back when I licked, sucked and fingered Her to orgasm.

We are on day five of a five week orgasm denial schedule so the CB was not to be removed. I begged for release anyway knowing that I would be denied. Instead I was ordered to retrieve and install Her newest strap-on harness and over sized dildo. After that She fucked my ass hard while I laid on my back, face down on the bed and watched from below as I sat from above.

I had been milked and my nightgown was soiled. After I cleaned myself and our toys, we both went to sleep.



I overslept this morning and my Wife was already in the process of making the lunches when I asked to be unlocked for my shower. She wears the key to the CB on Her neck which She used to open the small metal lock before I headed for the bathroom shower. To keep the metal lock from rusting, I replaced it with a temporary plastic variety. The plastic version however is not a lock. It's purpose is to keep the CB assembled during cleaning.

My Wife was in the bathroom preparing to leave for school carpool when I exited the shower. I toweled and put on my rob as She headed out of the door. Now, if you have been keeping up with the scene, you might also recognize that I am at this point able to make my own choice regarding my chastity. She left me alone in the house, UNLOCKED !!!!


Come back again as I will post the outcome. To make things more interesting, leave a comment to explain what you would have done. We might even get lucky and have a Mistress explain our punishment or reward.

Happy planet - not lately

Some days the planet seems to be off it's axis. It still spins but it wobbles and jerks.

Something I said last night tilted my world. Most disturbing is that I didn't even know it at the time. To me, my words seemed simple and innocent. But to my Mistress Wife, the phrase "Don't worry about it" was received as an attack on Her judgement. OK, I do admit it and hindsight being 20/20, I failed and should have known better. Ironically, the phrase was a response given regarding the content of this blog. I should be punished and taught some manners.

In my defense... Ya, I know, this part doesn't matter so I'll try to keep it brief. So far, my week has not been stress free. For some reason going back to work has been hard this year. To make matters worse, my co-workers bailed leaving me to cover. Although it is almost done, packing up and storing away the holiday decorations is never a 'happy time'.

Past experience has shown that over time this planet with stabilize and recover. I only wish it would do so sooner. Why can't I simply be punished, taught the lesson and then pardoned? This is how She raised Her children. Am I too old to be scolded, spanked and put in time-out? Does it makes sense to use 'cold-shoulder' and abstinence techniques to promote punishment as done in a vanilla relationship? There must be a way to take advantage of these Dominate/submissive roles. Most importantly by getting the point across, releasing aggressions, learning the lesson and moving on to enjoy life.

On a positive note... I have been doing well on my resolutions. I'm not 100% and I knew up front that the 'Strength and Endurance' resolution would be the hardest to obtain but the other promises have been upheld. I'm happy to say that I'm not craving cigarettes, I'm horny as ever, my cock is in lock-down and She owns my body.

Happy to make resolutions

My Wife has suggested that I post a few 2011 resolutions here on my blog. Actually, I wasn't sure whether a submissive should be allowed to make such decisions on his own. It does however seem reasonable for me to commit to improving myself and our relationship. For these reasons I have posted these resolutions to be acheived in the year of 2011.


Strength and Endurance

Since I already own a gym membership, I have the resources available to me to improve my strength and endurance with a regular exercise schedule. This could be fairly easy to achieve if my Mistress controls my workout routine and attire. This will also increase Her power over me, which I desire.

Nicotine Free

I will not allow any tobacco products in my body, no cigarettes, no patches and no gum. Since becoming a submissive I have already committed to living tobacco free. In fact, this issue was a major reason for living this lifestyle from my Wife's point of view. Starting in 2011, I will not allow myself to stray.

Orgasm Denial

I am committed to pleasuring my Mistress and remaining interested in Her at all times. It is already known that my climax diminishes my interest and arousal toward Her. Therefore I will not orgasm without permission. As a deterrent to the reduced desire and diminished arousal, I will always clean up after myself. If I cum in Her vagina, I will eat Her creampie. If not, I will consume my discharge from any surface, orifice or container, even if a condom is worn during the event. I will do so until She decides when I am finished.

24/7 Chastity Device

I will remain locked in the CB at all times. Only for hygiene reasons will I be temporarily unlocked for cleaning. Only my keyholder Mistress will be allowed to unlock the device and it will never be removed without Her permission.

Personal Hygiene

My body is owned by my Mistress Wife and therefore will be maintained to a level of cleanliness She desires. At a minimum, I will bathe twice daily, apply deodurant, brush teeth and use cologne. All hair will be removed from my entire body except for my scalp, eye brows, arms and a trimmed patch above the penis. At no time will hair be allowed on my chest, balls, ass, legs and armpits.

These resolutions I submit and commit to promote a better life in 2011.

Happy New Year

Well now, 2011 is here and promises to be my first full year as a submissive male in a female lead marriage.

Last night at midnight, I wasn't watching the ball fall in New York or raising a glass of champagne with a group of friends. No, not at all. Instead, I was tied spread eagle on Her bed dressed in woman's undergarments with my Mistress's mouth around my loose, hard penis.

The evening evolved from having our children and a few of their friends here to having the house to ourselves.This presented the perfect opportunity for me to fondly serve my Wife. I set a chair and a stool in our bathroom, plugged in a hot wax machine and gave her a pedicure and manicure while she read a book on the new e-Reader I gave her for Christmas. I'm pretty sure she enjoyed the event as well.

Just after midnight my Mistress set a few new ground rules of our relationship. First and foremost we will be focused on my respect training with new punishments. For example, until now wearing a bra has been used to 'keep me focused' but now that I prefer to wear one, as a punishment I will be denied wearing one instead. We also will be implementing a 'Naughty Spot' much like linewriter has been using although we have discussed using a step stool in our closet instead of a spot of carpet.

I have been issued additional changes for 2011. A couple of these are centered around her peace and comfort. Now that we have established a submissive attire and the ability to be locked in chastity 24/7, I will no longer be 'bothering' her for inspections or instructions. I will instead wear the CB, a clean bra, panties and camisole every day.

Late last night I also was told that I will not be having an orgasm until around Valentine's Day. I also will be routinely bound to the bed while I sleep. Of all the resolutions discussed these two are probably going to have the most impact on me. Not since puberty have I been denied orgasm relief and being tied to the bed will make the nocturnal erections a sadistic event. I suppose both of these changes are intended to reduce my interruptions and allow her to sleep through the night. If this is true, I'm betting I will soon be both bound and gagged because of the likelihood of incessant begging.