Happy Figging

This last weekend wasn't the first time that Mistress inserted something into my butt. However, it was one of the few times that it was ginger. My understanding is that this practice is called 'Figging'.

A few days ago I, Mistress Ivey posted a blog entry Not In Your Butt! although there is no mention to ginger, I feel the post relevant, entertaining and informational.

This post is my attempt to explain my latest experience with figging. The process is rather straightforward. Of all, the most important step is to chose a ginger root from the produce isle of the grocery store with some thought. Its size and shape will absolutely control the resulting experience. The size should be accommodating yet forceful. If the wearer has been submitted to a butt plug then choose the ginger that approximates the same size. Just as the butt plugs are formed to avoid complete insertion into the anus, so should the shape of the ginger.

Peel the ginger as you would a potato. Cut it to shape and its ready for insertion.

This past weekend, Mistress blindfolded and restrained me before preparing the ginger. I wasn't able to see what she had done but I think she heated the finger of ginger before returning to me. If this is the case, it was a great idea. Not only did it avoid the cold chill during insertion but it seemed to activate the chemical reaction much quicker.

Having ginger in your butt is an intense sensation. If you have used the product 'Icy Hot' then you should have a basic understanding of the feeling. However, inserted versus topical makes things really interesting. I find it impossible to relax and take it. Ginger causes my anus to contract and narrow. The added pressure on the ginger causes even more of the chemical to release. I will cycle through a series of brief relaxing moments followed by much longer periods of contraction. To me, this is one of the most humiliating D/s events I have endured and I'm quite sure Mistress finds it entertaining.

Let the ginger do its job. Insert it and watch it do what it does. If the ginger is slipping out, tape it in (duct tape works) or have the sub wear some tight panties or hose. You won't want to get involved so you can sit back and enjoy the event without distraction or interaction.

I don't know how long the sensation will last, as so far, my Mistress has had it removed while it was still potent. I would assume that over time the ginger will lose strength and feel much like a butt plug. My suggestion is to have a safe word and make the submissive stuggle until they use it or until it no longer entertains you to watch.

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Happy 'Belated' New Year

Well, at least it's still January as I post this message to wish everyone a Happy New Year.

Mistress and I entered the year in full stride. The holidays have come and past along with the family encounters and events. Through multiple visits our D/s relationship continued to swell secretly hidden behind our vanilla presentation.

Tonight, Mistress is 'out with the girls' and left me with a list of tasks to perform until she returns. One of which is to post to my blog to include my self-portrait to show how I was sent off to work today.

As you can see, I was back into the CB today. I battled most of the day recovering my 'belongings' as they slipped and drifted out of minimal containment of the rather useless g-string panties.


I really have grown to dislike the CB. I find it rather uncomfortable, a burden to manage and conceal. Mistress, on the other hand, seems to enjoy this arrangement and likes how it appears and functions. It has been over a year since Mistress acquired this device and she repeatedly uses it to enforce her ownership of me. I need her to own me and therefore I wear it proudly and willingly, even though I sometimes whine about having to do so.

I have a lot to do around the house this evening to prepare for Mistress's return and therefore I must get busy performing my tasks. Besides posting this blog entry, I must clean up the front room, arrange the Christmas boxes, collate and staple paperwork before preparing myself for her arrival. When she enters the bedroom, I am to be tied to the beams across the ceiling with a dildo deep in my ass. All the while cross-dressed in full makeup, breasts forms and wig wearing my full length wedding gown and appropriate heels.

Like I said, I have a lot to do so I'd better get to it.

Happy week in review

Here's a list of the D/s events that happened to me this week:

• Strap-on sex
• Horsewhipped
• Golden showers
• Gagged
• 24/7 Chastity
• Cunt worship
• Pet caged
• Tampon wear
• Blindfolded
• Spanked
• Foot worship
• Handcuffed
• Paddled
• Sucked dildo
• Butt plugged
• Feminized
• Ate, doggy style
• Gave massage
• Swallowed cum
• Gave pedicure
• Asshole worship
• Nipple torture
• Ass fisted
• Electro-sex
• Ate creampie

I thoroughly enjoyed Her attention and dedication to dominating me this week. Comparably, my occasional pleasing and pleasuring of Mistress was overshadowed by Her desire to regularly abuse me.

What a week !!!

Happy clenched backside

Sometime this morning Mistress tried in vain to wake me from a sound sleep. I don't know what time is was but I am sure it was very early. I sort of remember Her sucking on my nipples and cock and assume she was trying to get our cock aroused. She wasn't able to get the response She wanted and retired Herself to slumber on Her side of our bed. She must have been tired as well since She didn't engage in a domineering approach to arouse me.

Without wearing the chastity device, my sustained sleep ended when the alarm rang. The ability to rest comfortably throughout the night doesn't seem possible wearing the CB and this morning was a rare occasion. Following my shower I was ordered to 'lock it up' and the device was reinstalled.

As usual, Mistress packed my lunch and sent me to work. The remaining part of my morning was typical and uneventful. I ate lunch and sent a text message to Mistress checking on Her day. Her response implied that She was still thinking about Her inability to get satisfied during the night. I took full blame and asked if I would be punished. Surprised by Her response, She instructed me to find a tampon in the external pouch of my lunchbox, take it to the bathroom and insert it into my ass. I did as instructed and returned to my desk with the retrieval cord dangling between the cheeks of my butt.

I sent another message acknowledging that I had followed Her demand and asked if She would arrive to inspect. Instead Her response was to have me prove my compliance by sending Her a picture message with my cell phone. I did so and here's the image that I had sent.

My afternoon continued at work as my rectum uncomfortably retained the tampon while I continuously clenched to control it. I returned home on schedule and decided to post this entry while still aware of its presence as I contract my sphincter. It has been over seven hours since the tampon was inserted and I am starting to question my ability to hold it much longer.

It has been a long day.

Happy to be back

For me it has been a long week but now it's over and I am back to what I want to do, be a submissive husband to my Mistress Wife. She also was busy last week and therefore minimally dedicated time to our D/s relationship. As a result, tensions mounted and climaxed on Friday morning. Rather than delve into details let's just say that Her wishes of me weren't received and I chose a wrong path or two. We worked through some of our differences throughout the day on Friday before ending with a hot and exciting session.

Hot Wax Art

My Mistress and I enjoyed Her creativity when She bound me spread on the bed and plugged my ass, then followed up by tying my cock and balls to the foot board. I was left this way to wait while She showered and prepared Herself. Upon Her return, She lit a red taper candle and proceeded to drip hot wax from my chest to my knees. Proud of Her accomplishment, She took a few pictures to document the achievement.

After that She removed the butt plug, strapped on a dildo and fucked me as hard and as long as ever before.

Denial Return Failure

I have got to resolve or cure my heartburn as it has become a reason for personal failures. It is limiting my abilities to sustain many positions. My Mistress also allowed me to skip promised cleanup of the creampie I created that ended my three week orgasm denial. Thinking about it now, I'm at the opinion that She should not have allowed me to avoid my obligation and training simply because I wasn't feeling up to it. To Her credit, She wasn't focusing on Her domination skills while glowing from the series of orgasms She had just endured.

Golden Showers

Ms.Marie and sissy have sparked interest amongst their followers, myself included. My Wife has twice been able to urinate on me. Both times resulted in powerful D/s response. I am finding that posts and comments regarding domination through urination to be increasingly entertaining for me. I hope to hear more stories on the subject and maybe even post results of my own experiences that I now wish to endure.

I looking at this as a three step process:

1. Urinate to dominate
2. Licking Her clean
3. Swallowing 'nectar'

Can you add to this list?

Happy and pink

My Mistress has decided to step it up a notch. As you can see She has determined that my backside was in need of a beating. Other than wanting to be dominated and humiliated by Her, I don't think I did anything to promote or deserve this attention. However, I am absolutely sure that She enjoyed doing this almost as much as I enjoyed Her attention.